Training Children to be Independant

I am a fan of training my children to do things "independently".  I am even a bigger fan of teaching my children to have servant hearts by cleaning around the home, helping others, serving in the community (when age appropriate) etc. So when I found this list I was in "awe".

(Not ALL of these I believe in or will do but this is just a starting point)

This checklist is perfect b/c I wonder if I am moving too quickly with Cohen by making him take his dishes to sink after dinner, memorizing mommy and daddys full name, knowing his birthday, etc. But this way I can know where I am being too lax and where I need to step it up!